What Is Love
wirtten in a males perspective
Love is a gift given to us by our creator Himself. There is nothing like it in the world than can give you the sensation of wholeness. Feeling safe and understanding is a precious and nuturing gift.
Butterflies in the stomach feeling, as the old saying goes love is a sickness. Butterflies as we call them is a feeling of the anxiousness that sometimes is mistaken for fear, anxiety and unsteadiness. The feelings of uncertainess can be turned around by thinking of fear for being exited.
Our minds have a way to play with the emotions that people sometimes dont understand. Only the people involved can know trhe feeling of total wholeness. The body, mind, and soul need to be aligned to really become warm with the gift given to us sometimes is a person whom really knows us.
Friends, aquaintances, or just a neighbor whom we see all the time couldbe overlooked as a person who listens to our conversations, concerns, unsteadiness,hurt,pain and self destructive thinking. The power of conversation or just a simple hello can change a persons path.
I can tell you that how we percieve life as an adult is guided or brought to us by learning it from our families. A nurturing parent giving all we need in life protecting us from the outside enviroment and the damage of people who are negative can be just as damaging as being victimized. A helicopter parent is a normal feeling to make sure that we are safe. but the method of parenting is unhealthy as it doesnt allow the child or children to fall and make their own mistakes.
What is love? I can tell you what love is not. It isn’t jealousness, hurtful, painful and it does cause sickness. When you are controlled by a person or persons in your life whom keep you from being yourself it is not a normal feeling and causes you to become sick to you stomach and cause fearful feelings.
Just look in the mirror and do some soul searching. Ask yourself “what is love?” the real question should be “what is love not?” We always look for others to answers to the simple questions. We need answers but soul search in your heart and the answers will appear.
When somthing causes you to be fearful or anxious it is time to relign you life so you can be the person whom God has chosen for you.
We get trial and tribulations to guide our path of our journey. No one knows the pain and confusion that someone has unless they have lived in you shoes and followe the same footsteps as you.
Just listen to your gut feeling about the things in your life that does not seem right. Look at the way someone treats you or neglects simple courtiness.
Our paths are guided at birth. We really dont really know how or why. Everything in life is numericif you sit and think about it. The day you are born, the body temperture, the blood pressure, how much you weigh. I can make numeric defination of your simple existence.
Just a simple “hello how are you? ” or “can I help you with something?” can cheer a person up or fire their soul again. just follow life we have guardian angels here on earth.